KKN Gurugram Desk | Veteran Bollywood actor Aamir Khan has made a rare and candid admission about his past behavioral flaws, particularly his ego and emotional rigidity. Speaking on a recent podcast hosted by entrepreneur and content creator Raj Shamani, Aamir confessed that during a certain phase in his career, he would completely cut off people who hurt or disappointed him emotionally, regardless of apologies or attempts at reconciliation.
The most notable fallout, as Aamir himself revealed, was with his longtime co-star Juhi Chawla, with whom he didn’t speak for seven years — even while they were filming together.
“If Someone Hurt Me Emotionally, I Would Never Let Them Back In”
In a heartfelt exchange on the podcast, Aamir Khan opened up:
“If someone emotionally hurt me or broke my trust, I used to shut them out completely. No matter how much they tried, I would not allow them back into my life.”
This confession sheds light on a side of the superstar that has rarely been spoken about in public — his deeply guarded emotional boundaries and intense reactions to perceived betrayals.
The Juhi Chawla Fallout: A 7-Year Silence
Aamir Khan and Juhi Chawla were one of Bollywood’s most loved on-screen pairs in the 90s, known for hits like:
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Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak
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Hum Hain Rahi Pyar Ke
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Ishq
Despite their immense popularity, the duo suddenly stopped working together and were not even on speaking terms for seven years.
Aamir explained:
“Even while shooting together, we wouldn’t talk. Juhi tried many times, but I was completely unaffected. I was extremely stubborn and arrogant.”
What Caused the Rift? Juhi Chawla’s Perspective
In a previous interview, Juhi Chawla had spoken about their fallout too. According to her, the issue stemmed from a light-hearted prank gone wrong during the shooting of the 1997 film Ishq, which also starred Ajay Devgn.
Juhi recounted:
“Aamir and Ajay were playing pranks on me. It went too far and I nearly cried. I was very upset and, out of ego, I announced I wouldn’t shoot the next day. I didn’t think Aamir would take it so badly.”
Unbeknownst to Juhi, her reaction triggered a long-lasting emotional shutdown in Aamir. The bond was so broken that they didn’t interact on or off the set for years.
Wife Reena’s Intervention: “Why Are You Being Like This?”
Aamir also shared that during that time, his then-wife Reena Dutta tried to help him mend the friendship. She often questioned his cold stance:
“Reena would ask me — ‘What are you doing? Why can’t you just talk to her and let it go?’ But I wouldn’t listen.”
This moment reflects not just a marital conversation but a deeper emotional resistance within Aamir to accept apologies or let go of resentment — a trait he admits was damaging.
How Aamir Changed Over Time
While the actor acknowledges that he was once driven by ego and stubbornness, he also emphasized that he has worked consciously to change.
“Over time, I’ve learned to let go, to forgive, and to not shut people out so easily. I don‘t behave that way anymore.”
This personal growth journey aligns with Aamir’s public image of being introspective and socially conscious, especially in his later films and interviews.
Career Impact: A Star Who Carried His Principles to the Screen
Aamir Khan is not just known for his acting, but also for being one of the most disciplined and selective actors in the industry. While his strong principles have led him to iconic roles and films like:
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Lagaan
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Taare Zameen Par
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Dangal
…they may have also contributed to strained personal and professional relationships along the way.
Industry Response: A Rare Admission from a Perfectionist
Bollywood insiders and fans have praised Aamir for this moment of vulnerability. Celebrity therapist and author Dr. Anjali Mehta commented:
“In a culture where emotional stoicism is seen as strength, Aamir’s admission shows growth. It’s a model for younger actors to understand the value of emotional maturity.”
Public Reaction: Fans Appreciate the Honesty
Social media has been abuzz with reactions to the podcast, particularly to Aamir’s humility and willingness to own up to his past flaws. Popular reactions include:
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“Aamir is evolving not just as an actor but as a human being.”
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“We all have flaws. Respect to Aamir for speaking openly.”
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“It takes guts to admit emotional mistakes on a public platform.”
Hashtags like #AamirKhanPodcast, #JuhiAndAamir, and #EmotionalGrowth trended across platforms.
Where Are Aamir and Juhi Now?
In recent years, Juhi Chawla and Aamir Khan have patched things up, appearing together at award shows and social gatherings. While they haven’t collaborated on a film again, there is no longer any animosity between them.
This is seen by many fans as a welcome return to mutual respect, even if their friendship didn’t return to its earlier closeness.
Aamir’s Current Focus: Upcoming Film and Public Image
Aamir is currently in the news for his upcoming project “Sitare Zameen Par”, a film that is reportedly an emotional drama exploring human resilience — a theme that resonates strongly with his personal evolution.
He’s also increasingly active on mental health and self-awareness forums, appearing on podcasts, university panels, and workshops aimed at youth.
Aamir Khan’s admission of letting ego dictate his relationships is more than just a headline — it’s a window into the human side of a superstar. In an industry built on image and perfection, his honesty sets a new benchmark for public figures to discuss personal transformation.
From refusing to speak to a co-star for seven years to now reflecting on it with humility, Aamir’s journey is a lesson in emotional accountability, growth, and reconciliation.
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